Some Things Heal, Some Things Don’t

“So what did the doc say?” asked Rick as he put down his book and I re-entered his car. Rick had driven me to the doctor’s office so I could find out what the results were of my malaria test. “Well, I don’t have malaria” I said unsurprised. “So the doctor gave me some antibiotics to take for the next six days” I said as I held up the pack of 12 pills the doctor had given me.

I was happy to get this all sorted out and – hopefully – start to get better. But, I couldn’t also help but feel a bit sad. Literally, a five minute walk from the doctor’s office was my aunt’s apartment (the one that owns the European Standard School). Not only did this aunt not give me a place to stay while I sorted these medical issues out; but also, despite knowing how sick I was, they didn’t even bother to call to see how I’m doing.

My other aunt (the one who wistfully said “we’ll see” when I asked for a ride to the doctor’s office – but never got back to me) never even bothered to call back to see if I eventually did make it to the doctor. And my uncle who owns his own newspaper and his well-to-do children? Well, lets just say that I wouldn’t count on any of them to even bother showing up to my funeral.

I know this is all may come off as a bit melodramatic. Normally, I wouldn’t think about such issues. Normally, I’d be focusing on my project and my work here in Bangladesh. But, ever since I’ve been sick, I haven’t got much work done. And the lack of support I’ve been getting from most of my family here has kind of shaken me up. Fortunately, the kindness of strangers and the support I have back home means this project is in no danger anytime soon 🙂

9 Responses to “Some Things Heal, Some Things Don’t”


  1. 1 Sumaya

    Hope you’re doing better. You still amaze and inspire me; don’t let anything/anyone get you down!

  2. 2 Sumaya

    Hope you’re doing better. You still amaze and inspire me; don’t let anything/anyone get you down!

  3. 3 Sumaya

    Hope you’re doing better. You still amaze and inspire me; don’t let anything/anyone get you down!

  4. 4 Noi

    That’s bizarre. About the lack of support from your family there I mean. Maybe there’s some sort of bad blood between some of your relatives due to some dispute or something.

    Anyway, hope you are feeling better. I lived for a few years in Cambodia and came down with every illness you could imagine – from Dengue Fever to typhus to giardia. Was sick constantly for the first several months. I don’t know what you have but you will get better! It may not seem like it but you will! Stay hydrated no matter what and rest.

  5. 5 Noi

    That’s bizarre. About the lack of support from your family there I mean. Maybe there’s some sort of bad blood between some of your relatives due to some dispute or something.

    Anyway, hope you are feeling better. I lived for a few years in Cambodia and came down with every illness you could imagine – from Dengue Fever to typhus to giardia. Was sick constantly for the first several months. I don’t know what you have but you will get better! It may not seem like it but you will! Stay hydrated no matter what and rest.

  6. 6 Noi

    That’s bizarre. About the lack of support from your family there I mean. Maybe there’s some sort of bad blood between some of your relatives due to some dispute or something.

    Anyway, hope you are feeling better. I lived for a few years in Cambodia and came down with every illness you could imagine – from Dengue Fever to typhus to giardia. Was sick constantly for the first several months. I don’t know what you have but you will get better! It may not seem like it but you will! Stay hydrated no matter what and rest.

  7. 7 Shaina

    Hey Shawn!

    I hope you’re doing better. I’m currently in Bangladesh working with Nari Jibon (if you go to their blog and scroll down about halfway, you’ll see me). I’d love to get a chance to meet you if you’re in Dhaka. You can email me at szh07@fsu.edu. Take care!

  8. 8 Shaina

    Hey Shawn!

    I hope you’re doing better. I’m currently in Bangladesh working with Nari Jibon (if you go to their blog and scroll down about halfway, you’ll see me). I’d love to get a chance to meet you if you’re in Dhaka. You can email me at szh07@fsu.edu. Take care!

  9. 9 Shaina

    Hey Shawn!

    I hope you’re doing better. I’m currently in Bangladesh working with Nari Jibon (if you go to their blog and scroll down about halfway, you’ll see me). I’d love to get a chance to meet you if you’re in Dhaka. You can email me at szh07@fsu.edu. Take care!

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